Northern Arizona University

Resources for Parents of

First-Year Students

What kinds of issues might our son or daughter struggle with during the first year of college?
The first year will be a year of excitement and of trepidation, too. There will be many new adventures and challenges both academically and personally. The best thing you can do is to assist your student in finding balance in life. You have laid a terrific foundation of values and support. Now you need to let your student practice these and build his or her own identity and independence. Trust your student to make the right choices and find their path in life.

What can we do to support our student during this coming year?
Remind your student that you are there for him/her emotionally. Send cards and little gifts to remind him/her that you are there (there is nothing worse than an empty mail box!). Ask specific questions but be careful as too many questions might be seen as your concern that she/he can’t handle new challenges. Your words and actions will demonstrate that you are "there," and that you trust and respect his/her ability to handle the tough adjustment.

What if I haven't heard from my student for longer than our agreed upon time?
You may choose to contact the Residence Hall Director (RHD) and ask him/her to check in on your student. The RHD is trained to be subtle in such circumstances. If you are worried about your student’s safety, you should contact NAUPD directly at (928) 523-3000.

What if my student seems depressed?
If it appears that your student is suffering from more than a mild case of homesickness, or if you have questions about the signs of depression (or other illnesses), you can consult with the Counseling Center at (928) 523-2261. For psychological emergencies after office hours, a counselor is available for consultations and can be contacted through the same telephone number.

Revised 7/30/09